if you wouldn’t give a fuck even if you had done something wrong, then you can stop pretending that you respect trans people, because you don’t
I don’t think you’re seeing the bigger picture here?
I don’t want to speak for anybody that is trans here (so if you are trans and you’re reading this and you don’t agree with what I am saying, let me know) but like, a lot of trans people live with the fear of violence every single day. they live in the face of overwhelming statistics that say they’re scarily likely to be sexually and physically assaulted or even murdered, often because cis people have violent and erratic responses to their bodies in sexual contexts. so do you think that maybe some trans people might feel nervous sharing their body with another? maybe afraid? maybe acutely aware that it could end in assault for them? do you think maybe, then, that a trans person sharing their body with you could be an act of trust? in light of all that information, how do you think they’d respond when they found out that your response to their body was to be upset or disappointed? I am pretty sure that pre-op trans dudes are already acutely aware that they don’t have the kind of dick that a lot of cis people expect, you wouldn’t need to rub that in by being upset by it.
this obviously isn’t an attack on your being straight, merely that there are sometimes more important things than your hurt feelings when a person’s body doesn’t look or function how you wanted it to.
like I said, this is no longer productive.
errr I’m really confused now. I’m not saying at all that you don’t know what it’s like to be oppressed - I’m certain you know WAY WAY more about it than I do as a white girl (idk where you got male from). I don’t really know which feelings of yours I am not caring about since your first message said you didn’t give a fuck either way?
my only point is that I thought your comment on that photo was pretty fucked. I don’t think anything we’re saying to each other now is remotely productive anymore.
this isn’t about you hey. stop making it about yourself.
I’ve said what I wanted to say so I’m out.
ugh I wish I’d had unprotected sex lately I want to do a pregnancy scare april fools
haha idk I don’t heaps want to get into personal judgements but I guess the idea isn’t she doesn’t care what others think, which is cool when it’s your own personal photos, but when what you’re saying could impact others, you should probably start caring
haha thanks! it’s too early in the morning to get worked up and throw curses around really and I don’t want it to turn into some back and forth argument with name calling on both parts. I said my bit, that’s enough.
As you almost definitely know by now, Rush Limbaugh made waves last week with his ridiculously absurd characterization of women who want their insurance to cover their birth control as sluts and prostitutes who should be obligated to film pornos for him. This prompted a lot of people to demonstrate the incorrectness of this statement; the #iamnotaslut tweets, for example. This is all well and good, but third wave feminist that I am, I wondered: what about the people who are whores or sluts? Where does that leave them?
Allow me to tell you a story that illustrates my point. A friend of mine once made the mistake of getting into a cab that had a crazy racist for a driver, who proceeded to berate him and call him a “fucking kike.” My friend is not Jewish. Was the appropriate response, then, “oh no, ha ha, I believe this is a simple misunderstanding, sir. I am not a fucking kike, you see, but merely a gentile with a Roman nose”? No, no it was not. The appropriate response was to say “fuck you, asshole!” and get out of the cab, which is what he did. Do you see where I’m going with this?
By responding to the charge of whoredom with “no we’re not!” we degrade our fellow humans by implying that being a sex worker is bad, dirty, undesirable…all of the nasty words that have been used to keep women down for centuries. Sex workers are people too, with feelings, dreams, hobbies, etc. You might not even know it, but someone in your life could be doing sex work right now. Do you really want to risk hurting that person by arguing with Rush Limbaugh on his own horrible terms?” —Let’s Stop Insulting People By Comparing Them To Sex Workers (via thenewwomensmovement)
I don’t understand this
does the lol imply sarcasm? is this an April fools prank?
it’s so an April fools prank. I’m devo
probably some of the days I spent overseas, specifically the days in new york! I wish they could have lasted longer. either that or just super carefree summer days when I was a kid. half blind from swimming open-eyed in chlorinated pools, sunburned to the point of deliriousness, shoveling a paddle pop down my throat and trying to find a tap where we could rinse the sand off our feet, that kinda shit
hahaha I’m really not interested in naming names, sorry
the person involved wouldn’t be happy with me publishing their name on tumblr, sorry :) it’s also probably not anybody you know!
haha I’m not interested in telling you who it is? why do you even want to know!
not tellin and nope
5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently?
um this is difficult haha, ‘like’ is a vague word. there is somebody I still have feelings for but I have not seen them recently, no. but there is someone I am interested in that I have hung out with recently!
6. What are you excited for?
I’m pretty keen to have the day off work tomorrow! and today I bought incense and a facial scrub and a facial wash so I’m excited to put all those things to use
17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything?
cody, kate, nemesia. all super caring and supportive people.
40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?
haha they said they were going to kiss me and I was like ‘ok’. plus he had a beard what else was I meant to do
45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss?
nah it was nice!
- 1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged?
- 2. You talked to an ex today, correct?
- 3. Have you taken someones virginity?
- 4. Is trust a big issue for you?
- 5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently?
- 6. What are you excited for?
- 7. What happened tonight?
- 8. Do you think it’s disgusting when girls get really wasted?
- 9. Is confidence cute?
- 11. How many people of the opposite sex do you fully trust?
- 15. Are you going out with the last person you kissed?
- 17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything?
- 18. The last time you felt broken?
- 19. Have you had sex today?
- 25. What would you say if the person you love/like kissed another girl/boy?
- 32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do?
- 36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is?
- 40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?
- 45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss?
- 46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night?
- 73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy?
- 77. Ever been in love?
- Deleted boring questions. Lol.
TODAY SUCKS, TONIGHT WILL SUCK, WANT 2 CRY.
ahahaha that’s hilarious, I had absolutely no clue that this was going on
THIS HAS BEEN THE LONGEST AND MOST STRESSFUL WEEK EVER AND IT’S 7PM AND I AM FINALLY HOME!!!!!!!! I am running a bath and lighting lots of candles and putting on some incense and I rented a couple of dodgy action/thriller movies which I will watch while I am inside of the bath and then I will crawl from the bath to my bed and sleep so fucking blissfully